Hello. I'm a single, celibate man who believes authentic relationships begin OUT of bed- not the other way around. What about you? I'm an old soul seeking a seasoned woman of color who desires a younger man for friendship or more. I am not here for entertainment purposes. My focus is on establishing authentic communication with an articulate, well-meaning, and mature woman of color. I'm very partial to self-loving sisters who believe in wearing their natural hair, as opposed to wigs, weaves, perms, clip-on's, tied-on pony tails, and blonde hair. Remove the kinks from your mind, NOT from your hair.
My traits include a strong will, patience, flexibility, spontaneity, ingenuity, a green thumb, creativity, eclectic interests & discernment. I cook and give great massages. I'm athletic but NOT a sports fanatic. Being a sapiosexual, I'm drawn to genuine intellect. Both prayer and action matter to me. And I never ask for what I can't give (work with me and I'll work with you) I'm soft-spoken, yet outspoken quiet, but passionate self-controlled, but affectionate logical, yet intuitive. I love thunderstorms. Did I say I'm a great kisser? say "drama free". However, real life sometimes involves drama. At times, that's how it is. However, the qualifier should be that others don't let the drama dictate their/others’ lives (if possible). By the way, I avoid women who are violent, vague, frivolous, rude, unappreciative, materialistic. Please do not drop numbers in my box and expect me to call you. We're strangers let's feel each other out before exchanging contact info. (NO PIC OR PROFILE= NO CONVO)
As far as back ground, I was once a Navy medic. Currently, I'm pursuing a Criminal Justice degree full time. Relationship-wise, I am not in a hurry. True connections take time and patience and many, many conversations. Seldom does anything good come from rushing or being rushed. When you move too fast, you miss the smaller things- the things that people hide, and what you need to know to make an informed decision. You have got to know your future fpartner inside and outside. And you must be compatable with each other. After all, how can two walk together unless they are in agreement?