I am officially "off the market!
I decided to join when I saw the profile of a member (FlashFlair). He wrote me and although I swore I'd never pay for something like this, his profile left me extremely optimistic. When he wrote to me, I was dying to find out if the feeling was mutual. I would have obviously never met him, as he lives about 12 hrs away from me, but in the 4 months since we met on blacksingles, I have come to truely love this man. He is definitely a blessing--the man I have been searching for, and I can't wait to see what the future holds for us...but in the meantime, I am officially "off the market!"