I never thought I'd be writing one of these things!

jazzypoet & chicab

I never thought I'd be writing one of these things!

I had been on this site for about 3 1/2 years and had met a few interesting people here and there but it always was a bust!!!

I'm a very busy man with a lot of responsibilities..including 3 children from a previous marriage.... but I've always felt I was a good man ...just not a very rich one, but rich in hard work and fatherhood.

It seemed like everyone I met looked at my responsibilities as burdens. The women I would smile at that would smile at me more often than not, would be looking for Mr. Rich, or Mr. No kids or Mr. No divorce, or a combination of the three.... *Rejected*! time after time after time.

I had pretty much given up on the single scene, on and off line, when I met chicab just 4 weeks ago. She smiled at me, I looked at her profile ... and it was just on after that. She's beautiful, intelligent, down to earth, the whole nine... and was real from minute one.

She instant messaged me and we were chatting it up for over 4 hours, exchanged phone numbers, and talked for about 6 hours the next day. She had a wedding to go to that weekend and I had to go to a going away party. We text messaged back and forth the whole night! She is feeling me for my spirit not my past or what I could do for her. I didn't even think those women were still out there. I was done and according to her ... she was done too!!! We're mutually sprung!

This woman lives in Canada and I live in VA ... but already we are making plans to spend a lot of time together. Including an autumn trip for me there, a winter trip for her here, and a spring trip for me there.

So sorry BlackSingles.com, I'll be leaving soon... I have a lot of plane trips and phone bills to pay for. I have a lot to plan & maybe even more down the road. Everyone always say's you know the "one" when you see it .. what can i say? (smile) .. she's it!

Fellas, hang in there... you will find someone who accepts you for you, so don't get discouraged. BlackSingles.com was worth the investment and I was about to cancel one week before I met my baby!


jazzypoet & chicab

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