I had been a member of BlackSingles for about two years and have now finally found a reason to remove my profile. I have met the man of my dreams and who God has intended for me to marry on BlackSingles. His user name was mlkbrous (he removed his profile also) and mine was ms_rednlovely1. After months of inactivity I finally went back into my account and saw that he had sent me cards and smiles because we were never online at the same time. And he was a new member of only a month. And finally we connected after a few more tries because he was persistent and knew right away that we belonged together. And I am so glad that he did not give up on me. We both are computer people and plan to work together in the field in the near future to make a better life for our family. We have discussed marriage on several occasions (everyday) and I plan to move with my daughter to his home to live with him as soon as humanly possible. We both live in Arkansas and live less than 100 miles apart. Yay! He has a 12 year old son and I have a 13 year old daughter and a 19 year old son. And guess what? We’ve only known each other for about a month and a half but we know we are meant to be together because we talk on the phone everyday for hours and never run out of things to talk about. The quality of our conversations is always superior. We both like to laugh and live life to the fullest. I plan to see him this weekend and it will be our first meeting (Oct. 12, 2007). He has seen pictures of me and I’ve seen a couple of him but that does not even matter. What matters is that our hearts and God have already given us the sanction that we need to join together and become one and finally bring our families together for a lifetime of love and happiness. If allowed, we will surely keep you up to date on our upcoming marriage. Thank you BlackSingles!!!!