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Secret Admirer? Do you secretly admire someone?
  • Click "yes" and we'll secretly find out if they like you too. If they do, we'll introduce you with a You Both Said Yes Alert.
  • Click "no" to tell us you're not interested. And they'll never know you said no.
  • Click "maybe" and we'll ask you again later to see if you made up your mind.
  • You both said "yes" to each other. The feeling is mutual!
Online Status See who's online and ready to IM.
  • You've been disconnected from the Instant Message system after 20 minutes of inactivity.
  • You've chosen to be hidden (you appear offline to other members and cannot receive IM's).
  • This Member is offline.
  • This Member is currently online, send them an IM!
  • This Member has IM'd you before.
  • You've IM'd this Member before.
  • You've both IM'd each other.
Hot Lists Who's checking you out?
  • Add this Member to your Hot List.
  • Remove this member from your Hot List.
  • Members who have Hot Listed you.
  • Members you've Hot Listed.
  • You both Hot Listed each other.
Email Send and receive messages.
  • Members Who Emailed You.
  • Members you emailed.
  • You both emailed each other.
Smile Break the ice with a funny or romantic one-liner.
  • Members who smiled at you.
  • Members you smiled at.
  • You both smiled at each other.
Viewed Who's looking at whom?
  • Members who viewed your profile.
  • Members whose profiles you viewed.
  • You both viewed each others' profiles.
  • You can send this page or profile to a friend's email address.
  • They've joined recently. Introduce yourself!
  • This Member has recently updated their profile. See what's new!