I met desirable 3 months ago. We went to the movies on our first date and we've been together ever since. We've talked about marriage and I said yes, so we're planning on getting married sometimes this year. Thank you BlackSingles!

Because of your site I was re-connected with someone whom I had crossed paths with over 20 years ago in Korea. We are both retired military. He contacted me immediately and for the next few months we were on the phone for hours like teenagers, reminiscing and catching up on each other's lives. He eventually came out to see me and sparks flew instantly. Though we did not date back then, 20 years ago, there was an instant familiar attraction for both of us. Since then, we have visited each other on numerous occasions. We are currently engaged to be married and are making plans for our future. TRaining123 is like a prayer come true!!!!!

Thanks again,

TRaining123 and afriend2ufirst4now
Wedding plans: July 2008

I first want to thank BlackSingles for their site. I posted my information on the site September 2006 and posted my pictures on the site December 2006. My screen name is ladeep, which is supposed to be pronounced ladee p, but I forgot to put a space after the last e and before the p; how irresponsible of me.(LOL) I was only on the site looking for friendships and WOW, THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME:

Thanks to the site, I've met a WONDERFUL,GORGEOUS man back in November 2007, right before Thanksgiving.

I started sending smiles to this beautiful man and he responded. I then started sending cards and he also responded back with cards. He let me know that he checked out my profile and liked what he saw and read. I had already checked out his profile, of course, and then we started instant messaging each other. We then, after exchanging phone numbers, took our conversation(s) off the site. We spoke almost everyday, if not every other day. We emailed off the site and he web-cammed. We sent pictures via our cell phones, etc. I can honestly say that he was my friend before he became my best friend.

Due to the fact that I had called off an engagement prior to meeting Anthony, I truly thought that I was giving up on serious relationships for a long period of time, because the man that I was with before had really tried to hurt me. However, I AM A SURVIVOR and with the help of GOD, our father, I decided to move on.

Anyhow, the man that took my breath away, (literally), his screen name is jama434. After we had made plans about three or four times for him to come from Jamaica, New York to York, Pennsylvania, (where I reside)the plans kept falling through due to both of our work schedules. However, GOD finally blessed me with the honor of his presence yesterday, 1-6-07. He drove from NY to PA and he was here from a little after 4:30 p.m. to approximately 10:30 p.m. because he had to go back to NY to go to work. Was I ever blessed? It wasn't the quantity of time that we spent together, it was the quality of time.

I don't want to forget to give him his props. HE IS A WONDERFUL KISSER!(LOL) I feel as though I AM THE LUCKIEST WOMAN in the world!

I say this for several reasons. Some are: I never thought that I could have a SERIOUS relationship or feel SERIOUS feelings about someone younger then myself, (and I did/do). I am 39 and he is 33 years old. Anthony is a VERY MATURE MAN. We carried stimulating conversations for the hours that we spent together. We also talked about plans of him coming back to PA in about a week and a half, to spend the weekend. We talked and we both agreed that we do not want any more children (I have two and he has one).

I asked Anthony not to share this information, but it is to good to keep a secret. He actually had me crying ("tears of joy"). The anxiety that I was going through was/is gone. I have been carrying a weight on my shoulders and when Anthony came along, that weight (literally) was lifted.

I can say honestly that if nothing else serious comes out of this chance meeting, the friendship will continue forever and a day. Thank-You Black Singles for the opportunity to post a profile on your site and also thank you GOD for MY ANGEL!

I also want to say this, "Thank You Very Much BlackSingles.com and that I/we will keep you updated on any other changes that may proceed". I may be off the site within the next month or so (if not before). SMILING

May GOD continue blessing you all at the site and keep making love happen, even when people don't really happen to love.

ladeep AKA Phyllis H.

I just wanted to let you know that I met my boyfriend on Black singles almost a year ago and we are engaged! (well pre-engaged I guess) I was given a 17-diamond princess cut "promise ring" on Christmas day. First the promise ring, then the engagement ring, then the wedding ring. I'm a very blessed young lady. His screen name is wrufflove. Well, I just wanted to say thank you. I almost didn't give him a chance because he had kids until I found out that he only had two kids and that they are grown up and live in another state. We found each other and now we can't be without each other. Thank you again and please let everyone out there know that there is definitely hope if they are just patient, have a open mind, and just believe. Thanks again!

Godlymann and trueheart37 met two months ago in a well lit parking lot. From the first moment that I saw him, it was like I knew him all my life. We have some much in common that it's scary. I cannot believe that God almighty has created this man just for me. We are planning to take our time and let God do the rest. I truly call him my heart's desire. If you believe in God, and you truly love him, he has someone out there just for you too. Godlymann and I are working on building a great friendship that will lead to a great marriage.
Thanks BlackSingles!

trueheart37